The relationship we have with our Self is the foundation for every other relationship we have in our lives. Our internal world is often mirrored to us through external relationships.
"The love you dream of is on the other side of deepening the connection to yourself."
Many of my clients come to me after they have even done lots of personal growth already, yet something still feels unresolved and they keep circling in the same patterns.
They often understand "why" some of their patterns exist but they don't know where to go from there.
If any of this resonates, you’re not alone.
Much of what shapes our lives and relationships was formed long before we had the awareness to question it. The emotional patterns we carry often began as adaptive ways of protecting ourselves.
But the strategies that once helped us survive begin to limit how deeply we’re able to connect and love, both ourselves and others.
Understanding those patterns and beginning to move with them creates the change you are looking for. So often people get stuck at the knowing level. This is where my work comes in.
About Nicole
You probably landed here because something in your life or relationships isn't what you want. Maybe it's in love, in conflict, or in the way you respond to stress and cope with daily triggers.
My work is devoted to helping people understand the deeper emotional and relational patterns shaping their lives so they can move forward with greater awareness, safety, and connection. We get to the deepest root.
For more than a decade, I’ve worked with individuals and couples exploring the roots of their relationship dynamics, emotional responses, and beliefs about love, worth, and belonging.
My approach integrates relational patterning, inner child and parts work, somatic awareness, and spiritual insight, helping people reconnect with the parts of themselves that were shaped long before they had the language to understand them.
My path to this work wasn’t academic. In many ways, I was my first client.
After leaving a 16-year marriage, I began a profound journey of self-discovery and healing that reshaped how I understood relationships, emotional safety, and the patterns we unconsciously recreate throughout our lives.
Today, I hold a Master’s degree in Holistic Health and am currently pursuing my Master’s in Clinical Mental Health Counseling as I continue deepening my training in emotional and relational healing.
Outside of my work, I’m also a teacher, a mother of four, and a woman deeply committed to living the work I guide others through.
I’m married to my best friend and partner, and our relationship continues to remind me that the deepest connections we experience grow from honesty, awareness, and the willingness to keep evolving.
I don’t believe people need fixing. People need acceptance.
I believe most of us simply need the space and understanding to reconnect with the parts of ourselves that were shaped in pain in order to discover the truth of who we’ve always been underneath it.
From this place, life and love begin to meet you differenlty to mirror the inside changes.
That’s the space I hold in my work.
What is the Biggest thing you have had to own within yourself?
my sensitivity & inability to be fake
What makes you want to hide?
when I feel sad or overwhelmed
the real work is in accepting yourself more so than "fixing" yourself
What is the most challenging fear you've had to overcome in your business?
fear of rejection or not being "wanted"
What is the most challenging thing you've had to overcome in love?
What advice would you give someone on their healing journey?:
being all in & not wanting to be saved
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TESTIMONIALS
"As a mentor to Nikki Amaturo for many years, I can truly say she is a rare find - An amazing, deeply integral human being.
It is so refreshing to come across someone with such a fierce and unwavering tenacity for getting to the core of her own self, her patterns and her unique themes, in order that she can be of the greatest service to all of the fortunate humans that she touches in this life.
I can highly recommend her as a coach & mentor, for those who are seeking to align themselves with the deepest truth of who they are.
Her authenticity makes her a beacon for those wishing to find the truth that resides inside."
Daniel Regan
Personal growth Consultant
I tell everyone I meet: my coach changed my life. Those are really the only words to describe what working with Nicole is like! We spent a total of 9 months together 1:1, and while I came to her first because I was ready to heal my love life, it led to so much more than that (although I do have an amazing husband and beautiful baby girl together now). The inner child and energetic embodiment work that we did together helped me so much in my coaching business in regards to realizing what I truly wanted to create… in my relationships with others and the way I listened to them and understood their perspectives… and in my relationship with myself, leading me to be more compassionate, loving and present. Even when she’d say things that would trigger me, it ALWAYS led to growth and I always ended up grateful. My time spent with Nicole was worth every penny and I cannot recommend working with her enough.
Lily nicole
Must Listens
EPISODE 001
Meet Jasmine. Jasmine learns how to understand what she's actually feeling so she can begin meeting her own desire to feel chosen before she puts it all on her partner.
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EPISODE 002
Nicole discusses how to allow yourself to be loved in all the shameful and imperfect parts so you can stop unconsciously pushing love away.
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EPISODE 003
Meet Vanessa. Vanessa learns that the part that she exiled when she was 16 is actually the part that holds the key to her true magic, which will allow the love she dreams of to come in.
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